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Seven P’s to consider BEFORE marriage

By | March 12th, 2017|Autumn 2016|

The main purpose of singleness is to please God but for a wife its making a home for husband/children. Being a wife is a role and it’s about serving their husband for God’s sake. There is nowhere in the Bible that says marriage is about happiness or making each other happy. The role of a [...]

The Art of Communication

By | January 25th, 2017|Autumn 2016, KC Community Discussion|

What Is Faith? It is an agreement for something intangible to become tangible. This agreement therefore makes things possible, creates a goal to achieve and establishes a view for the future. Look at the iPhone and the Internet - a lot of these things are miracles and started from a simple idea. Why is it [...]

All About The Bone (Part 2)

By | January 25th, 2017|Autumn 2016, KC Community Discussion|

"If the bone doesn’t fit your internal structures… DON'T TRY TO FORCE IT!" Pastor Bayo Ajayi How Do You Recognise Your Bone? Let's consider the following 5 scenarios… 1. Missing Rib Cage / Rib Bones You haven’t found your spouse in your current environment. There is no one around who matches your bone. Perhaps it's [...]

All About The Bone (Part 1)

By | January 25th, 2017|Autumn 2016, KC Community Discussion|

"This one is bone from my bone, and flesh from my flesh! Genesis 2.23 (ESV) · How do you measure compatibility? · What do you measure it against?  Perhaps a previous relationship? · Do you know what you are looking for in a relationship or mate? · How would you consciously recognise these when you [...]

3 Way Communication (3/3)

By | January 25th, 2017|Autumn 2016|

There are 3 types of Communication: with Yourself, God and others. 3. Communication with Others Right communication with your own self will help you to communicate right with God. It is only then that you will be able to love another human being as you love yourself. Anyone who doesn't know him or herself cannot [...]

3 Way Communication (Part 2/3)

By | January 25th, 2017|Autumn 2016|

There are 3 types of Communication: with Yourself, God and others. 2. Communication with God You cannot communicate with God effectively until you have come to a honest self realisation which you can only achieve until you are ready to hold the right kind of communication with yourself.   First, look in the mirror and [...]

The Prince & The Damsel

By | January 25th, 2017|Autumn 2016|

A man's strength (ego, power and ability) is his weakness; whereas a woman's weakness (soft-nature and femaleness) is her strength. She is strongest when she is being a woman, "needing" her man and weakest when she is trying to be strong like a man. He is strongest when his logic rules his ability and not [...]

Are You Ready to Settle Down?

By | January 25th, 2017|Autumn 2016|

Maturity on several fronts will be good markers to let you know if you are ripe for a relationship or not. 1. Spiritual Maturity This is the depth of your walk with God, and how much of God's Word influences your desires and decisions.  It is how much your recreated spirit is in charge of [...]

The Pursuit

By | January 25th, 2017|Autumn 2016|

Proverbs 18.22 Whoso FINDETH a wife findeth a good thing, and obtaineth favour of the Lord. There are many females in this world, but wives are indeed scarce.  Note the word "FINDETH" in the above scripture. You only find what is uncommon and not generally available, what is common needs not be found, it can [...]

3 Way Conversation (Part 1/3)

By | January 25th, 2017|Autumn 2016|

There are 3 types of Communication: with Yourself, God and others. 1. Communication with Yourself Your communication with yourself is extremely important and fundamental for how you connect with others. With most of us, we only communicate with the good parts of ourselves but we should also become Accountants of ourselves and be accountable for [...]