The Black Widow

By | January 28th, 2020|KC Community Discussion, KC Lifestyle, Marriage|

The Black Widow is a venomous spider that is known to kill and eat the male after mating. This describes the type of macabre behaviour that I have witnessed in certain types of relationships. A type where the “Black Widow” woman, who is not interested in marriage but uses it as a socially safe way [...]


By | January 28th, 2020|KC Community Discussion, KC Lifestyle, Marriage|

Ultimately the outcomes of society boil down to the man and the woman, the husband and the wife, as it was in the garden, the ultimate fight of good against evil is fought and won in the home. The kingdom of Israel was compromised in the days of Ahab when he succumbed to his heathen [...]

Tick Tock

By | January 21st, 2020|KC Community Discussion, KC Lifestyle, Marriage|

Time on earth is running out If we don't see the world go "boom" in our own lifetime, it means we reached the end of our own life, it is inevitable... The End! However "the end" is not the end but a beginning, life here is a preamble for eternity in one of two realms, [...]

The Real Reason For Marriage

By | January 14th, 2020|Marriage|

My prayers are with Harry and Meghan on this, I pray that the royal family will find the wisdom to deal with the issues in a way that helps all to find fulfilment.Whilst I know that there are obviously other factors at play in Harry and Meghan's story, from the articles headlining in every mainstream [...]

To Take or Not To Take…. His Last Name

By | September 19th, 2017|Dating & Courtship, Marriage|

Within the KC Community many questions have been asked that have challenged our mindsets as it relates to marriage. One question asked earlier this year was: “Why does a woman have to take the man’s last name if [the man] is the one who leaves his father and mother?!" This is what Genesis 2.24 says [...]

The Husband & Wife Persona

By | September 19th, 2017|Marriage|

In the blog "7P's to consider BEFORE marriage" the 7th "P" mentioned is "Persona" this essentially means the different roles the marrried couple will play with in their marriage. Being a Husband or Wife can also be considered roles perform to each other. This blog dives into this persona criteria . . . A Husbands [...]

The Wife’s Purpose (Part 3/3)

By | March 21st, 2016|KC Woman, Marriage|

Purpose vs. Career Do not confuse purpose with career. Your ultimate purpose as a wife and woman of God is to please the Lord and incubate the destiny of your husband as given to him from God. Your career is NOT your purpose. In fact, when you are united with your husband in marriage, your [...]

The Wife’s Purpose (Part 2/3)

By | March 15th, 2016|KC Woman, Marriage|

Make a House a Home, where God dwells The Man is responsible for the deliverables/goals that God has set for that home. Women are to ensure the house is conducive for him to do this. You need to make the home a place where God dwells. There are many homes in poor neighbourhoods where God’s [...]

The Wife’s Purpose (Part 1/3)

By | March 10th, 2016|KC Woman, Marriage|

Proverbs 12:4 A virtuous woman is a crown to her husband. A wife is a made material, not born material. Wife skills are different from woman skills. You are born female, but wife skills are not natural but learned; these can only be obtained through the renewing of your mind as you grow in your [...]