"If the bone doesn’t fit your internal structures… DON'T TRY TO FORCE IT!" Pastor Bayo Ajayi How Do You Recognise Your Bone? Let's consider the following 5 scenarios… 1. Missing Rib Cage / Rib Bones You haven’t found your spouse in your current environment. There is no one around who matches your bone. Perhaps it's [...]
"This one is bone from my bone, and flesh from my flesh! Genesis 2.23 (ESV) · How do you measure compatibility? · What do you measure it against? Perhaps a previous relationship? · Do you know what you are looking for in a relationship or mate? · How would you consciously recognise these when you [...]
There are 3 types of Communication: with Yourself, God and others. 3. Communication with Others Right communication with your own self will help you to communicate right with God. It is only then that you will be able to love another human being as you love yourself. Anyone who doesn't know him or herself cannot [...]
There are 3 types of Communication: with Yourself, God and others. 2. Communication with God You cannot communicate with God effectively until you have come to a honest self realisation which you can only achieve until you are ready to hold the right kind of communication with yourself. First, look in the mirror and [...]
A man's strength (ego, power and ability) is his weakness; whereas a woman's weakness (soft-nature and femaleness) is her strength. She is strongest when she is being a woman, "needing" her man and weakest when she is trying to be strong like a man. He is strongest when his logic rules his ability and not [...]
Maturity on several fronts will be good markers to let you know if you are ripe for a relationship or not. 1. Spiritual Maturity This is the depth of your walk with God, and how much of God's Word influences your desires and decisions. It is how much your recreated spirit is in charge of [...]
Proverbs 18.22 Whoso FINDETH a wife findeth a good thing, and obtaineth favour of the Lord. There are many females in this world, but wives are indeed scarce. Note the word "FINDETH" in the above scripture. You only find what is uncommon and not generally available, what is common needs not be found, it can [...]
There are 3 types of Communication: with Yourself, God and others. 1. Communication with Yourself Your communication with yourself is extremely important and fundamental for how you connect with others. With most of us, we only communicate with the good parts of ourselves but we should also become Accountants of ourselves and be accountable for [...]
Purpose – Marriage – Parenting The Kingdom Woman should be a PMP expert in “Purpose, Marriage and Parenting”. Understanding one's purpose is a pre-requisite to having a successful Kingdom focused Marriage. Having a successful marriage (as God intended) is a pre-requisite to having a successful Kingdom focused parenting approach. Purpose The Kingdom woman needs to [...]
Purpose – Marriage – Parenting Last time, we focused on the Kingdom woman so now we turn our attention to the Kingdom man. Similar to the Kingdom woman, the Kingdom man should also be an expert in “Purpose, Marriage and Parenting” (P.M.P). If you have not read this article we recommend you review the previous [...]
